That's the thing. A host should be willing enough to help you to prove it the other way around. And you're totally right. You cannot possibly prove to your host that there is a server problem because you haven't got the technical knowledge to do so. But they certainly have.
Any host worth their salt would spend no more than 30 minutes looking at your logs and configs before coming to some sort of conclusion as to the cause of the issues.
The only other suggestion I have now is:
a) A XenForo ticket via the Customer Area (but this seems to be server related so it's a bit beyond the remit)
b) A fellow forum member who would be kind enough to look at your server directly. Maybe someone will volunteer.
Well, of course we don't know why some threads won't load. But generally speaking it seems to be some sort of MySQL error. When I was trying to get into one of your threads previously - even with all add-ons switched off - I would eventually get hit by a MySQL Server Has Gone Away error. From what I understand, this is generally a connection issue to MySQL. If the MySQL server isn't on the same server as your web server, for example, then it could indicate a network issue.
EDIT: Also I think it's fair to add that yesterday you said your MySQL log was empty. As far as I understand it, that should never be the case so I wonder if you were looking at the correct log?
Any host worth their salt would spend no more than 30 minutes looking at your logs and configs before coming to some sort of conclusion as to the cause of the issues.
The only other suggestion I have now is:
a) A XenForo ticket via the Customer Area (but this seems to be server related so it's a bit beyond the remit)
b) A fellow forum member who would be kind enough to look at your server directly. Maybe someone will volunteer.
And I still cannot access specific threads, this one for example that I've posted before, it simply doesn't load, for some reason I can't understand:
http://www.travelstories.gr/community/threads/Ταϋλάνδη-σε-10-μέρες-Τρέχουμε-τώρα.27956/
Well, of course we don't know why some threads won't load. But generally speaking it seems to be some sort of MySQL error. When I was trying to get into one of your threads previously - even with all add-ons switched off - I would eventually get hit by a MySQL Server Has Gone Away error. From what I understand, this is generally a connection issue to MySQL. If the MySQL server isn't on the same server as your web server, for example, then it could indicate a network issue.
EDIT: Also I think it's fair to add that yesterday you said your MySQL log was empty. As far as I understand it, that should never be the case so I wonder if you were looking at the correct log?