If you install the add-on after XFRM, it has a installstep5 method to add that field to XFRM table. If you install XFRM after the add-on, it has a postinstall event listener to add that field to the XFRM table so it's strange that it failed in your case.
Try running this query in phpmyadmin:
SQL:
ALTER TABLE `xf_rm_resource_update` ADD `siropu_keyword_linking_ids` MEDIUMBLOB NULL AFTER `embed_metadata`;