Hi Everyone,
I’m the owner of the site in question.
Firstly, I’m a big fan of what Mike and Kier have done with the software and would like to stick around on this forum, so wanted to set the record straight.
Secondly, It’s a bit unfortunate that our private conversations were posted, especially since we were still going back and forth discussing this privately as of late yesterday. It would also have been fairer to at least include all our messages in your original post, and not just some, in order to help others better judge the situation.
Here is my original message that I sent to you on the 13th of March (which was before I did anything):
Hello,
Nice site you've got here.
I am an Australian that is about to launch a student business and economics forum exclusively for Australia. The domain will have the .com.au TLD and in no way be related to your forum in terms of content, locality or targeted audience.
The forum will be running XenForo and the design you have created here at Forum Vancouver is outstanding, and to be perfectly honest, the look is a great match for my own site.
I was initially going to replicate the look of your forum as close as I could myself, minus the logos and anything else which identifies your site. However, I thought I would first politely ask you if I could purchase the relevant CSS, PHP, .tpl etc files from you directly, rather than struggling to replicate the design myself (which will take me quite some time as I am a business graduate and have little CSS or HTML experience).
I was thinking something like $100 for these files, and I would pay upfront through paypal or any other method.
Of course, I am not interested in selling or distributing your sites design and simply want it for my own forum. I will even give you the domain name of my site upfront also (its yet to be registered at this stage).
Really hope you will save me countless hours of editing!
Warm Regards
I then received the following reply:
Hi there,
Someone else approached me as well awhile back. I am rather uncomfortable with others trying to replicate my design, I'm sure you understand. I spent a significant amount of time creating a unique identity for my site. As such, I won't be sharing my template files.
I appreciate you letting me know your intention! Out of respect, I ask you not to make your site too similar to mine. Borrow elements and ideas, but please do not copy the layout, colours, etc. Xenforo is a wonder to work with even for CSS/HTML newbies, so creating your own unique look is not difficult! Plus, you can't beat the sense of accomplishment in doing so.
I trust you understand! If you do end up copying some of my design (again, please don't make it identical), I would appreciate a link back .. or perhaps a donation to the Japan-Earthquake relief fund.
Be sure to show me your work! Would love to see how it goes.
What I basically took away from your reply was that it would be ok to do so, so long as I don’t make it identical.
A month later I then redesigned the site, incorporating most of your design, gave you credit for it in the footer, then asked you what you thought of the design. I did this because I wanted your feedback in case you felt that it was too similar. I also made it clear that I was willing to make further changes until you were comfortable with it.
You then gave me a list of suggestions, and I actually agreed to take up your suggestions in my response:
Thanks, will have a look through your suggestions and will try and address. I guess i Will play around with the colour scheme and so on using a test style until I can get the look right (I suck at design, so will take me some time). I wont really have the time again to design the site for probably a few weeks, but it will be done. You wont have much to worry about it the meantime though because traffic to my site is minuscule for now.
So you can probably understand why im a bit surprised this thread was even created. It also makes me wonder if I should even bother to continue to make changes to the design just to make the owner happy, given what’s been happened now.