Bump.
Crons have been run in admin numerous times manually.
'Conversations' are also haywire, some dont seem to appear to the receiver, old and new, although the notification bell indicator for new conversations received works.
Webhosts cant seem to figure it out.
At this point I want to try a new install of xenforo on a test site and transfer the database over from the buggy site to see if i get the site back to how it was before the webhosts messed with it.
I have a second xenforo forum that has nothing to do with the buggy one, although its on the same reseller account with the same webhost, same server and even same IP... the server move did not affect it at all, that one works perfectly as it did before the move.