smallwheels
Well-known member
I'don't think and feel "everything is ok" - how do you come to that conclusion? Rather the opposite. But I've seen and been in situations like that often enough that I see the structural reasons that possibly lead to a situation like that. This makes me more relaxed as I see that what is happening is somewhat common (and even unavoidable to a degree), may I like it or not. And I also have seen the outcome of situations like that which is typically positive longterm - yet won't be the cozy world of the past that you demand. I prefer to deal with those patterns and reasons rather than with the surface perception only and prefer to deal with the reality rather than blindly demanding something completely unrealistic and dreaming about a past that has long gone by (and probably is more shiny in memory than it was back then in reality as well). Yelling has barely ever solved a problem and ignoring the reality and living in the past has neither. To no repeat myself endlessly here's a post from a while ago about exactly this topic:Judging off your join date, it seems you began here in 2022, so I can see how you don't see the contrast as much as others... and still feel "everything is okay".
It doesn't change the presence if you mentally live in the past - it is gone.While this is technically true, when I bought XF a big part of why I did it was because of Mike and Kier, and how involved they were with the community.
Which seems reasonable. It is like it is and some of those that liked the past but not the presence drew their consequences...I understand that wasn't something that was legally part of the deal but I'd argue that there are a LOT of folks here who chose XF for the same reason back then, and probably a lot who have now left because that's all gone.
No doubt XF has a lot of room to improve in many areas. But for one it is still an excellent product that has not and will not stop working (so a lot has been achieved by the team) and secondly it is not on me to decide what they do but on them. So why should I make my life miserable? I can barely take influence and surely the probability of taking any influence at all is higher through constructive comments, objective facts, some empathy and hinting to small steps than trough yelling, daydreaming and loudly demanding the impossible in ignorance of the reality and the own position. At least that's what life tought me. I cannot decide what the XF does and neither do I want to. I am a customer. I can be demanding, supportive, helpful or annoying (and sometimes all of that at the same time) but I cannot make decisions for XF. I have to accept whatever they decide for their company and product and if I don't like what they decide and how they act and at some point think I can't live with that (or don't want to) I have the freedom to walk away and find a software that suits me better. It is that easy.