I think I am a lost cause too!
I am actually developing with Netbeans over a SVN setup and on a portable setup (
http://www.portableapps.com/, a real life savior!). The actual test server and SVN repositery run on a server at home (but I may well switch on one of my servers in the datacentre).
The only pain is the templating. Either webdav or online, and that system doesn't help with a revisioning system. Now I really have to configure netbeans to understand "Zend Framework". It's there, I just haven't had the time, nor the will, to cnfigure it, really.
Eclipse is a fine piece of IDE too and I used it while developing on the symfony framework (
http://www.symfony-project.org/).
For those that can afford an SVN server, I can't really stress how important a revisioning system can be to your projects: to be able not to overwrite files is just as precious as backing up your system!