So I am novice themer when it comes to XF and I need to know if there is a good guide to make a nice looking theme. I need to know basically it all, what effects what. What the basic folder structure for the images are, everything. I know my CSS, HTML, etc but XF confuses me. I want to make something similar to this site http://trialsofascension.com/forum/ but Idk how to make the header wider and taller, how to add custom buttons, etc. Yes This includes how to get/make the xml file!