I have been waiting patiently for the release of vb5 so I could make my all important final decision of moving my last, and main site, back to vb...sorry, I can't handle the lack of progress and communication in XF...BUT, after having a little play with vb5, and yes I know it is BETA, now everything is pointing to either hanging around with XF on a maybe or just say "STUFF IT ALL" and go to IPB.
After researching forum products sufficiently, and for the same reasons already mentioned above about both VB and IPB being extremely bloated, server hogs, that will never sufficiently deliver a fast experience to your users, I am one very happy person to invest in Xenforo add-ons and the product.
Regardless what happens between Kier and Mike, Kier is a genius when it comes to writing forum software. That means... I think they both deserve time out due to the stressors them and their family are under from this IB nonsense lawsuit. It will all be over soon, first up next year... then people can make all the decisions they need.
I guarantee though, just knowing VB's history, VB5 will not be a usable product by then. IPB will still be a bloated pig trying to impress for performance, when it is anything but streamlined. IPB have a long way to go in that area of their product.
At some point Kier is going to get back to doing what he does best, being developing forum software and products. Based on how successful XF has already been in the marketplace, I see no reason why it wouldn't go forward once the lawsuit is in the past.
That means, products. The resource manager is done, we can all see that. It isn't released yet because they need time off due to all the nonsense of this suit. They deserve that IMHO... as XF still kicks the crap out of VB and IPB for performance, functionality and is adequate for features.
Anyone making moves before that court hearing, is insane IMHO.
Me... I'll keep using it after the fact, regardless. Users are eating it up. My site has tripled in two years using XF compared to 5 years using VB. Google absolutely loves XF coding, especially now that a significant gain is achieved in Google for fast loading websites versus clunky slow pages.