white lady
I'm just saying Dre...saying white girl or black girl ain't really a thing, if that's what your used to,it could be with your boys chillin or at the club scene, after parties and all that blahzay-blah and that's normal...but for some people who are not exposed to usage of the phrase it comes off as racist or at the very least harsh on the ear.
The problem I find with that use of it is that other people who ARE ignorant to how it is being used hear it and use 'this white dude' or 'black girl' to help project their own view which may be intended in a derogatory manner. I'm just saying in a public place with out any intonation or otherwise audible clues to the intention of the communication that many people will take that as a stab at something and it would probably be better to address the kind woman with a bit more tact so that people understand your intention.
Around here people say ' ðɪ́s wáyt ↘ dúd' and it is just meant a completely unloaded and descriptive method of distinguishing someone as in more information than saying 'this guy' and in no way meant to be insulting.
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But then...a lot of those same people...will turn around and say... 'ðɪ́s ↗wáyt ↘dúd' while trying to refer to someone in a negative manner...and they won't intend to impart any racism into the words, they are trying to to refer to someone negatively they way you would when someone cut's you off on the highway...like saying "you arsehole" in a totally generic and trivial manner.
Again the 2 problems I find with it's use is that many severe racists don't understand that there is no racism intended in the previous uses of the phrase and they take what was not intended to be an insult and reciprocate with racist hate, and also it's common uses gives broadcasted racism a public leg to stand on...like a foot in the door and because of the many uses and misinterpretations, it becomes a completely loaded phrase no matter how you use it especially to people who don't hear it on the reg.
Either way...wgaf, just think 'good looks' and then look out for someone next time the opportunity arises. Karma is only a mofo if that is what you put out there.
