Random Thoughts...

[Adam Howard]

Interesting story. I've never argued about money (most people do) I've always been at the point where if you have it you can buy what you need, if you haven't you go without and in my younger years often than not I would go without. I'm not one to ask to borrow a cup of sugar, some milk etc it just feels strange (even to good friends) although I have been asked myself if they could borrow some milk, sugar etc which i don't have an issue with. I don't expect for them to give the sugar back, I see it as they came and asked, i gave him what they asked to borrow and they need not return it, end of story. Unless it's something like "Can i borrow your grass cutter, I'd expect that to be returned if they ask to borrow it.

Money is the route of all evil and I've seen many people argue over it, it's one thing I have never personally argued over or had arguments over. If someone needs help, a friend perhaps I will help them without question, which I have done many times. I'll most often than not, rather go without, than ask but that is me and I don't judge others who ask but if they did somehow twist things I'd do what I do when the Jehovah witnesses come knocking, slam the door in their faces or tell them to get lost to put it politely.

I think that's the problem.... He seems to always "need" something.

And in my good nature I've never saw reason to be rude & turn him away. If I have extra and someone ask me if they can "bum off" a little in their time of need... I'm likely to lend a hand.

I'm also a very helpful person in a world where people far to often question the motives behind every good deed. When ever asked, why do I do the things I do, I simply reply; "Because I can". And I feel that is as good enough answer as any.

He's always asked me for a favor or always needed something from time to time. I wouldn't say dependent upon my good deeds, but I would say he has benefited a little as a "convenience". And maybe 1 or 2 times where he may have been in a ruff spot & I had no issue in helping when asked.

I just find his argument and way of thinking, illogical. I've been nothing but respectful to this "stranger" that is my neighbor. As we were never friends, just friendly in a few passing moments of small talk. So for him to suddenly give me such a disrespectful tone, talk down to me, and seemingly the need to argue with me as if I had done him some strong offense against him.... I see no just cause for it.

I had the $3. It is after all only $3. No big "whoop de do da day". I just had it in the bank and not physical on me that very moment. And I did tell him this. And he was the one to offer to go to the store for me, while I dug out his car from 3ft of snow. I never even thought to ask.... He just popped out the question out of thin air.

As I knew the store was closing in 5 minutes... I figured sure. You can do me this 1 favor (task) out of all the many unpaid favors I've done on your behalf, because I've never in the 2+ years asked of a single thing from you, while you've happily asked often from me.

You'd think with all the favors and good deeds I had done for him the last 2+ years.... This one small "task" that he, himself offered, would not have been such a burden and lead to such a dramatic and senseless outcome.

But as I said... He's always asked for something and maybe that is a clue to his behavior. Perhaps he really does have far less than I. And for him $3 is the difference between life and death. But if so, why take such a risk knowing full well that he left to the store with no cash in hand from me? And with all the good I've done for him, never doing him any wrong or cause any harm... Logical would suggest that he not lose his mind & attack me, as if I would "f*ck him over".

I sometimes don't understand people.... And in spots like this one... I guess I don't want to.

 

[Shelley]

I think that's the problem.... He seems to always "need" something.

And in my good nature I've never saw reason to be rude & turn him away. If I have extra and someone ask me if they can "bum off" a little in their time of need... I'm likely to lend a hand.

I'm also a very helpful person in a world where people far to often question the motives behind every good deed. When ever asked, why do I do the things I do, I simply reply; "Because I can". And I feel that is as good enough answer as any.

He's always asked me for a favor or always needed something from time to time. I wouldn't say dependent upon my good deeds, but I would say he has benefited a little as a "convenience". And maybe 1 or 2 times where he may have been in a ruff spot & I had no issue in helping when asked.

I just find his argument and way of thinking, illogical. I've been nothing but respectful to this "stranger" that is my neighbor. As we were never friends, just friendly in a few passing moments of small talk. So for him to suddenly give me such a disrespectful tone, talk down to me, and seemingly the need to argue with me as if I had done him some strong offense against him.... I see no just cause for it.

I had the $3. It is after all only $3. No big "whoop de do da day". I just had it in the bank and not physical on me that very moment. And I did tell him this. And he was the one to offer to go to the store for me, while I dug out his car from 3ft of snow. I never even thought to ask.... He just popped out the question out of thin air.

As I knew the store was closing in 5 minutes... I figured sure. You can do me this 1 favor (task) out of all the many unpaid favors I've done on your behalf, because I've never in the 2+ years asked of a single thing from you, while you've happily asked often from me.

You'd think with all the favors and good deeds I had done for him the last 2+ years.... This one small "task" that he, himself offered, would not have been such a burden and lead to such a dramatic and senseless outcome.

But as I said... He's always asked for something and maybe that is a clue to his behavior. Perhaps he really does have far less than I. And for him $3 is the difference between life and death. But if so, why take such a risk knowing full well that he left with no cash in hand from me? And with all the good I've done for him, never doing him any wrong or cause any harm... Logical would suggest that he not lose his mind & attack me, as if I would "f*ck him over".

I sometimes don't understand people.... And in spots like this one... I guess I don't want to.

I think it's safe to say the issue wasn't with the $3, it goes a little deeper than that, whatever that may be. Eitherway, it sounds like you can turn this into a positive, you don't have to deal with him again or associate yourself with him. And if he comes to apologise, do what I would do, refuse it.

 

[Adam Howard]

I think it's safe to say the issue wasn't with the $3, it goes a little deeper than that, whatever that may be. Eitherway, it sounds like you can turn this into a positive, you don't have to deal with him again or associate yourself with him. And if he comes to apologise, do what I would do, refuse it.

Clearly there is something more.... God if I know what.

Sadly, this will be one life's little mysteries to which I'll just chuck off as someone being immature, disrespectful, and ignorant.

 

[DRE]

I want some cereal.

 

[Chris D]

I want some cereal.

I want you to stop having permission issues with my add-on

 

[DRE]

I want you to stop having permission issues with my add-on

lol I'm trying to make it work. Hey look I moved to another server and I still get weird issues but it's all good cause it helps you get better at figuring out people's server issues that conflict with your add ons.

 

[Adam Howard]

The Catholic Church should reflect modern times and have a woman as Pope

 

[DRE]

I can't believe I thought Digital Jedi was Digital Doctor this whole time. Because Digital Jedi's wife is a Black school teacher, I used to wonder, 'Why would she let her man troll on xenforo 24/7?' Reassuring to know these actions aren't actually made by a married man, but from someone who is most likely single.

 

[Adam Howard]

I hate when you finally think everything is working and everything seems to be working.... And suddenly you find that 1 flaw that neither you or anyone else knows what caused it, how it got there, or how to fix it, and it would be just simpler to start over rather than go digging around, cause that 1; small little issue is like a domino if you even touch it wrong.

 

[Kim]

Random thought:

Blowing bubbles is the greatest thing in the world, they are the perfect analogy for life...

Some are big and lovely and float languidly through the air for a very long time.
Some are small and rush forth with great enthusiasm only to burst spectacularily all over the place.
Some cling to others like limpets, and drag the whole bunch down.
Some are so sparkly and perfect in the way the reflect their beautiful rainbow colours, that they dazzle.
Some are dull and boring.
Some fail completely.
Some are just wet drips.
Some instantly pair up and float happily off into the sunset forever.
And best of all are the ones that make you smile, that make your heart sing, no matter what they look like, they bring joy and colour and movement to your life.

Plus... My dog loves this game, she is so happy and it makes me laugh to see her trying to catch them all like some demented PokeMaster.

 

[Sador]

The Catholic Church should reflect modern times and have a woman as Pope

Why?

 

[0xym0r0n]

I might have ADHD.... this explains everything.

 

[Adam Howard]

Why?

Why not?

..... Wait...

Don't answer that....

If you're one of those religious nuts.... We'll get into this whole gender war in regards to the bible and the social place of where men vs woman stand.

It will be an illogical argument based upon outdated morals, ethics, and beliefs.

 

[Brad L]

Why don't I live in Hawaii? What the hell am I doing here?

 

[Sador]

Why not?

..... Wait...

Don't answer that....

If you're one of those religious nuts.... We'll get into this whole gender war in regards to the bible and the social place of where men vs woman stand.

It will be an illogical argument based upon outdated morals, ethics, and beliefs.

I'm not religious, not a nut, and I'll answer the "why not" part after you answered my "why" question. I agree that women aren't higher, lower, better or worse than men, and as such should have equal rights.

That however does not answer my question as to why they should pick a woman as pope this time, or why it would reflect on modern times. If it's truly the modern times you refer to, and discrimination would not be an issue, they should pick who is objectively best suited for the job. And that's regardless of gender.

 

[Adam Howard]

A series of unfortunate events....

Well first our old host started to make it difficult to recover our files. They basically throttled our account so far back that we could not do a remote recovery. Which wouldn't be so much a problem if my ISP (Internet Service Provider) wasn't experiencing outages in my area (they claim it is weather related). When I finally did get everything online, the new host had a hard drive die. This can happen to anyone, including you, but it sure was bad timing. So this meant having to repeat the process all over again. This is why its taking so long to get Socially Uncensored back online. It's been 1 problem after the next and none of within my control.

 

[Adam Howard]

The thing about having something happen that is not your fault is you feel good for about 30 seconds knowing you, yourself did not f*ck up. But that's all... 30 seconds. Because directly after those 30 seconds, you're suddenly washed over with the complete feeling of being virtually either helpless or angry, if not both.

 

[SneakyDave]

Quality over quantity kids, don't fool yourselves

 

[Adam Howard]

Quality over quantity kids, don't fool yourselves

Clearly qualify is in the eyes of the beholder

 

[Morgain]

The Catholic Church should reflect modern times and have a woman as Pope

HORRORS no!
At least with a stupid doddery old bloke putseying around in layers of nighties it makes it obvious the institution is decrepit, nasty and useless.
If a woman was pope it would make it look as if it were more modern, more sensible - more people might take notice of it and take it seriously. No no no.

please note my disgust is directed at the institution not the dreams of the ordinary devotees.