I havent heard back from him since like 1:30 (it is now 4:30) I'd like to get this set up today. I searched and searched and don't see any solutions here. I am not tech/code savvy. If an admin wants access to my server I will give it. I have a VPS.
Good to Note that I had my host update my PHP it is now PHP 5.3.18, i read that XF may not be so friendly with it. Any help would be great!