I find this a very myopic view of add-on development and audience growth.
In mature environments, very few customers wish their favourite products didn't grow and expand. By adding extra functionality, they bring in fresh ideas and appeal to a broader audience.
Mature people don't summarily label all who oppose them fanboys, that is a highschool lunchtable mentality. not seeing that is myopic.
Adding cruise control to a car, and allowing a customer to turn it on and use it or leave it off, does not add bloat or weight. It just makes the car appeal to a broader audience and helps to ensure the models longevity and aftermarket support.
So while you bring up cars let's bring up an example... adding lets say a garage management software is suitable for a core forum product and I shouldn't say why I think it is a waste and why i feel my money is being wasted by supporting a software which clearly favors automotive interests?
Wanting to restrict an XF add-on's functionality solely because you don't want it, often means your asking the developer not to grow their add-on functionality or audience appeal.
I'm not asking the developer anything...if you have the ability to suggest something and support it with details, I have the right as a paying customer to say my opinion on it. Thinking you have the right to say something and I don't is pretty immature. And again we are talking about core xf not addons.
As for wanting more for free, that too is not often the case. I think many would be happy to see an add-on's price increase if more functionality was added. If you don't want that functionality then don't turn it on (all good developers, IMHO will ensure that functionality can be enable/disabled) or don't want the price to increase, then the argument could be turned around for you to go and hire a developer to create just the features you want.
How much custom work do you do surrounding xf and how many people have you talked to about working on their site to gather this information? Again we are talking about the core xf product and not addons which are not needed to run XF so please stop manipulating the direction of what I was saying.
Ultimately, a customer should not have to feel they need to justify or argue for their request/suggestion for increasing add-on functionality to other customers on the sole premise that other customers don't want it. It's for the add-on owner and developer to decide what that wish to add to their product.
And I shouldn't have to justify why I am against it, but you are making me...like a mouthy bully...but I am willing to because I don't feel like the whole world should agree with me automatically because I say something without explanation though what you are saying is that once someone suggests something it is immune from scrutiny even by another equally valued customer of XF who may or may not leave the platform if development starts favoring individuals who can not be asked questions or posed with opposition to their suggestions...sorry the world doesn't work that way if it did this thread wouldn't exist and you wouldn't be arguing with me.
If I was an add-on developer and it was my thread that customers were arguing and intimidating other customers against their suggestions, I would very quickly shut them down. It would be my choice alone as to whether functionality was added to my product or not, and I wouldn't let herd mentality and intimidation decide.
But it is not your addon, this is for core xf software and I am a customer with a valid opinion just like you who is basically telling me I am immature for not being part of a herd which you later talk down on like you are not suggesting imposing the same thing from the other side. Like right now, you suggested I was immature in my attitude because I won't treat another adult like a child and just shut up and let them have their way like a lazy parent would.
However going off of your logic and to be frank...if the system was setup like you were suggesting (which is you telling XF how to run their company but I am sure you would let them make their own decision right? ) then threads would be locked and only the thread creator could post and only likes would be available to everyone else.
But that's not the way it is.
As far as herd mentality...that is EXACTLY what you are proposing to start enforcing...a system you are suggesting would be ripe for manipulation because all you would have to do is privately contact enough people who already are your friends and a suggestion would be implemented popularity contest style...but someone like me who wont game the system will never have a suggestion implemented because I can't talk in that thread, no one can pose opposition and I wont msg all my internet friends to support my idea.
There are no arguments in a herd...you either run the pack or follow behind with the rest being ousted and that is what you are suggesting here...a controlled herd that benefits your operational preference.