I'll throw out my $.02 for what it is worth.
I started with vBulletin in 2006 with my forum. It worked fine and I believe some of the developers here now were there at that time, too. I definitely remember seeing Kier's name way back then.
When they left, vBulletin was not the same with their big new release (I think version 4) that was buggy. I eventually found Xenforo and saw that Kier was there as well as some of the same other staff. That made me feel good and I knew that Xenforo would be a good product. It was an easy choice for me to go with XenForo. And I do not regret it.
While the Xenforo updates seem to be about once every 2 months that is fine with me as I don't have any problems with the software. It works well, does what it is supposed to do, and I don't spend time worrying about it.
I couldn't say that about vBulletin after they left. I think a lot us know that from experience.
I bought Xenforo and the renewal price is just right for me. The pricing at IPB is just too expensive. Maybe it does have more out of the box as far as features, but maybe not. I don't know. I don't need all of that.
When I upgraded to XF 2.3, I uninstalled all my add-ons to upgrade and had no problems with the software working like it was supposed. I did have a minor issue with the custom style, but Russ helped me with that and it was a real easy fix.
Again, Xenforo worked like it was supposed to and upgrading was painless as usual.
As for Reddit, there are some good things about it, but I'm not a fan of the up and down numbers or the way they allow people to reply to a post underneath the post. It keeps getting really complicated going through all the replies, etc. I like the way Xenforo keep things in a continuous running conversation mode. No rabbit trails to go down with many replies to a single post, etc. This to me and is just my opinion, but I like this simplicity. It is easy to follow the way forums like Xenforo are.
Reddit might be one person's cup of tea, but it is not mine.
I realize Xenforo might not be labelled "modern" by social media's standards, but that's ok.
I like the way forums don't limit the number of characters you can post, etc. like social media does. This, to me, allows for more meaningful engagement between members and people.
Some of us don't have the "New York minute" attention spans that social media users have so that sitting here and talking about something like this thread would be too much for today's social media users.
I looked at the "slow" updates as some people called them as being more that there was no need to update the software. I have come to expect quality from Xenforo and they do not disappoint. The support on the main site is very good as well.
I agree with the other users here that IPB seems to be focused on the business and enterprise market, but that is fine. They can do whatever they want. And Xenforo can do what they want.
We all will pick what works for us. I do think they are paying attention to Xenforo as they should because Xenforo is their competitior even if they don't think so or don't want to admit it. They would be foolish not to pay attention.
I think Xenforo needs to keep doing what they are doing and don't look back.
JMHO for what it is worth.
