I'm personally not sure why a person could not in general rely on his community to report inappropriate behavior, since it's highly unlikely that many of them would just grin and bear it for very long. I guess this idea now that everyone always needs to be spying on everyone else and monitoring their private conversations is a symptom of the times. 20 years ago you'd be hard-pressed to find anyone who''d say they were totally cool with people spying on them, but this generation's motto seems to be, "Well, if you've got nothing to hide, then..." Which of course our governments must love, because it means not too many people are going to create much of a fuss about what they're up behind the scenes. Anyway, I'm not trying to convince anyone, you've got your reasons - people always have their reasons - and I'm not going to engage in any argument over it. Just throwing in my 2 cents. If you're fine with others eavesdropping on all your private communications wherever you go, whatever site you're a member of, then I guess go for it. If you're not, then of course you shouldn't do it to others.