Utah Fishkeepers

[CarpCharacin]

How did I fail?

 

[CarpCharacin]

He is now sending me emails again.

 

[whynot]

He is now sending me emails again.

Fantastic!

War and Peace

Currently peace...till tomorrow.

 

[CarpCharacin]

I am just going to empty my inbox and forget about him.

 

[Mark.B]

Carp why do you ask for advice, then ignore it, then ask for advice again?

You were told dozens of times by dozens of people how to handle 'Jim'. Instead, you let him back into the forum. Again.

If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got.

 

[CarpCharacin]

He is gone. His emails are in a special folder so I don't have to see them or think about him.

 

[Mark.B]

He is gone. His emails are in a special folder so I don't have to see them or think about him.

Until the next time.

 

[CarpCharacin]

I will just move them into the folder and forget abut them if he sends me any more

 

[Pierce]

The unfortunately painful process of growing up and maturing young man.

Let's not repeat history.

 

[CarpCharacin]

What is painful? Dealing with Jim?

 

[Mark.B]

The unfortunately painful process of growing up and maturing young man.

Yes...I'm hoping I'll be able to do that at some point soon....

 

[CarpCharacin]

2 active posters left the site yesterday . I hope the site dosen't fail because of it.

 

[CarpCharacin]

So what should I do?

 

[tajhay]

So what should I do?

Start listening.

Or

Close the forum until you are mature enough to do so.

If you think you have been listening(which you will), then go for the second option.

 

[CarpCharacin]

I don't want to shut it down. I have been posting actively on it, but 2 active posters left. Does the site still have a chance? I am mature eough to listen. What should I do that does not include shutting it down?

 

[tajhay]

What should I do that does not include shutting it down?

Read the first line of my previous post.

I am mature eough to listen.

No you aren't.

 

[CarpCharacin]

Ok i will listen but what posts do I need to listen to?

 

[CarpCharacin]

Does my site still have a chance, or have I ruined it?

 

[tajhay]

Does my site still have a chance, or have I ruined it?

The latter.

Administrating a forum is a SELFLESS task. When you make it about you and power, you will fail.

 

[CarpCharacin]

The latter.

Administrating a forum is a SELFLESS task. When you make it about you and power, you will fail.

I didn't make it about me and power. I made it about fishkeeping.