Morgain
Well-known member
I do not call mischaracterizing what I said and then telling me what I should have done, after the forum was already up and running, helpful. That's where the personalities got into the picture. Improving things doesn't mean going back through time, sorry.
I wasn't telling you what you should have done. Done is done.
I was advising on what you can do NOW to speed up the acclimatisation.
Like using invited ventilation - invoking members favourite XF features - giving strong and definite positives on your members' attitudes instead of arguing with them.
Whether you like it or note, and clearly you don't, as an admin your personality is openly, nakedly on display for all to see. Very much "in the picture." Unless you're going to play robot admin (an interesting thread that came up recently) your personality is equally if not more important than your software.
So if you want help with your board's performance that includes the examination of what you are doing as a person. Tough call.