My comment was about your intention, not your tone.If they took umbridge they can just delete tho. This was supposed to be ideas and a new experience for forums in general not just XenForo per se as it's in off topic. But mainly XenForo as that has been my favorite forum software.
But you may be right and my tone may be incorrect in places. That is definitely frustration seeping through. I've spoken truths but I also am guilty of not always carrying the right tone.