Carlos with all due respect that is not true what you have written. Last year I defended myself when my ex wife claimed that I sexually assaulted her and bashed her (this was to improve her stand in the on going child custody case we have). I was arrested and charged with two counts of sexual assault and one of domestic violence.That's not what I was saying. What I was saying is - in the view of judges, or juries... They don't see it as a good move, so it looks bad on him. However, I do agree that he's not inhibited, or prohibited from seeking counsel should it escalate.
Whether it's a civil case or criminal one... That's not the point that I was making.
Hey, don't be like that.![]()
Like most people, you mis-understand me.Carlos with all due respect that is not true what you have written. Last year I defended myself when my ex wife claimed that I sexually assaulted her and bashed her (this was to improve her stand in the on going child custody case we have). I was arrested and charged with two counts of sexual assault and one of domestic violence.
Carlos with all due respect that is not true what you have written. Last year I defended myself when my ex wife claimed that I sexually assaulted her and bashed her (this was to improve her stand in the on going child custody case we have). I was arrested and charged with two counts of sexual assault and one of domestic violence.
im curious what made you changing your judgment to go for criminal charges?
Excuse me? What's that?I wouldn't waste your time arguing with Carlos. He has his mind made up and you won't be able to convince him otherwise.
I wouldn't waste your time arguing with Carlos. He has his mind made up and you won't be able to convince him otherwise.
But thanks for the encouragement.
Hopefully I will be able to explain tomorow assuming the correct information has been posted to me and gets delivered tomorow morning.
I never said that if you represented yourself, it would mean that you go to jail. I said that if you represent yourself... You risk having a stigma among those in court, especially the judge.At first he claimed if you represent yourself your going to Jail - I told a very personal story which was hell for me but proved you could do it and he changes his story as to what he was saying.
Once again, I never said that people don't have the right to defend/represent themselves. It's just that you're putting your entire case on the line, especially if you do not have a lot of experience.People have the right to defend/represent themselves if they so wish - if according to Carlos a Judge makes up his mind that you are already guilty for doing that then it is immediate cause for a retrial and for the judge to be excused from hearing your case.
This is the best part of your post. You summed up perfectly.I wanted to tell you my story of reprenseting myself so if you opted to go down the same path it was some sort of 'light at the end of the tunnel' where you knew if you did your homework you would be alright. The difference between my case and yours is if I stuffed up I was going to jail if you stuff up you may still have the civil option.
A major development occured today in our favor. The next few days will be volatile. Stay tuned![]()
Good for you mate, you're an inspiration to us, and I do hope you share your costs with the rest of us, I've had to opt out of a court case due to the sheer cost of these things here in the states.A major development occured today in our favor. The next few days will be volatile. Stay tuned![]()
Good for you mate, you're an inspiration to us, and I do hope you share your costs with the rest of us, I've had to opt out of a court case due to the sheer cost of these things here in the states.
What country are you in? What did you file to begin the case? As in small claims or something.
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