Long story short I had someone hack my admin account. They got into the boards email account somehow, and the first thing I did was change the password for that email account. I then used the 'forgot password' feature of xenforo to try to get my account access back, but never received the email......because the board can't send emails since I changed the password for the email account! Woops, should've done that the other way around.... I still have access to the actual server, so I'm hoping there is a SQL command to change the password used for the boards email. I'm using Gmail.