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Sharing Facebook Accounts With Your Spouse

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by DRE, Oct 7, 2013.

  1. DRE

    DRE Well-Known Member

    A member told me that her boyfriend has logged into her FB account and she's wondering why he's doing that. She said he's been telling guys "hi I'm so and so's boyfriend, I logged on accident" to almost every guy that messages her. He's doing it on purpose and she wants to know why he's doing it. I told her he's just marking his territory but to be on the safe side and for privacy, you shouldn't allow anyone to share your FB account.

    Do any of you share your FB account with your spouses and if so, why?
  2. Brogan

    Brogan XenForo Moderator Staff Member

    My wife and I know each others passwords to every account: online, forums, social networking, bank accounts, etc.

    It has never been an issue.
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  3. DRE

    DRE Well-Known Member

    Wow you must be in love.
  4. Carlos

    Carlos Well-Known Member

    My brother and cousin used to do that. Both always had drama surrounded around these kinds of "share your password for Facebook" and it's mostly because women feel "jealous" that they might be cheating on them.

    It's stupid. If you're jealous of another woman trying to be close to your man, then might as well just break up. Mostly because there's no trust. If you trust your man or woman enough, you don't need no stinkin' password for facebook.

    I'll never share passwords to my facebook account even if it means breaking up. If you don't frickin' trust me, then GTFO.
  5. Flexin

    Flexin Active Member

    My wife can check my phone (BBM, text, email or any other im account), my facebook, G+, can listen in to my conversations using the empty soup cans and read the messages from the carrier pigeons before I do. I have nothing to hide from her. She can even read the messages to and from ex girlfriends.

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  6. Flexin

    Flexin Active Member

    BTW it sounds like he has a low self esteem and is threatened by the guys that are messaging her. In the end it might cause him to lose her.

  7. DRE

    DRE Well-Known Member

  8. Carlos

    Carlos Well-Known Member

    And who is "he" you referring to? If you're referring to me, get this: I'm not insecure. Got it? Good.
  9. Sheldon

    Sheldon Well-Known Member

    Calm down Carlos. He was speaking to DRE.
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  10. DRE

    DRE Well-Known Member

    He was referring to the girl's boyfriend that I'm talking about in the first post.
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  11. Carlos

    Carlos Well-Known Member

    phew. :notworthy::oops:
    Yup, noticed that from @Sheldon
  12. Sheldon

    Sheldon Well-Known Member

    They say stating you are not insecure, means you are insecure.
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  13. Carlos

    Carlos Well-Known Member

    I misinterpret how to say it. But most of the time, if you're secure in yourself, then you have nothing to worry about with regard to your relationship. Being insecure means like you are jealous to the point of "controlling" a part of a relationship. In fact, if you're insecure in yourself, you don't have an ounce of pride in yourself.

    That's the way I look at it.
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  14. Tracy Perry

    Tracy Perry Well-Known Member

    It's called trust.
  15. MattW

    MattW Well-Known Member

    My friend shared this image on FB the other day, and I know a few people who do this
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  16. Tracy Perry

    Tracy Perry Well-Known Member

    A friend of mine sent me one of the girl he's dating now sans a top. Showed it to the wife and her comment was "Dang - I bet her back hurts her all the time from carrying that much weight". :whistle:
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  17. ManagerJosh

    ManagerJosh Well-Known Member

  18. DBA

    DBA Well-Known Member

    It's called marriage. I really hope you love the person you marry. ;)

    While dating, no not sharing any passwords, if you don't trust me.....
    Married, mine is yours and yours in mine...
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  19. Jason

    Jason Well-Known Member

    Nope. We've never felt a need to share passwords to personal accounts (minus checking accounts and debit card pins, as that serves a practical purpose). If you're doing it as a matter of trust, then you probably already have trust issues to begin with.
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  20. Tracy Perry

    Tracy Perry Well-Known Member

    Very big assumption. I ride a motorcycle (also known as a donor cycle - so you can see where this is going). If I ever get crunched on the bike it'd be nice for her to be able to do a shout out to my friends on FaceBook to let them know. Same way with my email, etc.
    The point was that you should have enough trust in the other that you don't worry/think about it. If you are worrying/thinking about it - then there is not full trust there.
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