anyway I like how xenforo treats private conversations , however , there seems to be some issues.
I'm not a forum owner, rather a user.
I was engaged in a conversation that had a lot of replies. I "left" the conversation in order to stop receiving emails about every reply, as there is currently no way to turn it off in the user control settings.
when I left I realized I accidentally hit the leave never to return option. And now I can't get back in even if I where reinvited .
so now everybody loses as the person who left can not contribute any more to the convo.
if I am missing something let me know... If not I would like to see a couple of changes in the next vers of xenforo.