I relay stuff to Ashley.
It's nothing that I have done. People are just upset and they need some one to blame so they can move on. They have chosen to blame me and I am happy to fill that role if they need me to. I don't wish anyone gone.
It's important that you keep perspective on things. Every time some one leaves it is cast as a mass exodus. In reality it is one person's choice and we must recognize and respect that.
If one, two or three persons leave, it's their decision. If more continue to follow, there's generally an underlying problem. Even if there wouldn't be, it doesn't change the fact that valued members, addon makers and so on that made XenForo what it is today, are leaving. That tends to snowball into more people leaving. At some point, it needs to be stopped. If you relay things to Ashley, it might be wise to ask him to make an appearance to make some sort of statement. Anything, really. Even if just a "we're still alive, but.." message is better than nothing. If he refuses, for whatever the reason, or does not respond, you would do best to communicate that to the customers, so they know what they're dealing with.
Again you are challenging my moderation in a public forum, and in multiple threads. Would you like to move this discussion to the PM I have opened with you?
While I have no problem with you personally, this isn't the first time in the last few days that someone is having issues with their stuff getting deleted. As I have no idea what's going on, as everything is getting deleted, it's hard for me to comment but.. it might be change to consider changing something? Strict moderation is generally not the way to go if people are all ready having issue with the staff / owners in my opinion. And while the concern thread was the complete opposite, in that it should have been locked much earlier, meeting somewhere in the middle might be useful.
Either way, I think everyone really just want some sort of official statement, regardless of whether it's positive or negative.
Edit: Also, if people are shouting they are looking for the door, I wouldn't be too hasty in advising them where it is. It can be taken as a "good riddance" kinda feeling, where a voice of reason would be better for everyone. Just make take on things, though.