I haven't read this thread, too much discussion that's all over the place about opinions that don't matter to the topic.
But, what I do agree to is that if you are on the top menu, and it dropsdown, you see your avatar. Or that if you are on your own profile page and you see your avatar. That if you Hover over the image, an overlay appears that lets you edit your image. This is more logical and provoking to the end-user, and an improvement to the ui/ux
That it handles normally as it's currently designed, that's fine by me.