I respectfully disagree with advice to try a different free forum software.
They are too different. It'll confuse you.
For a more experienced person moving from one type to another is no big deal. But for the inexperienced quite small differences can look like big puzzles and really block you.
Plus XF is SO much easier than all the others.
I suggest you keep playing with the XF demo here - I believe it has at least some admin pages on it?
Here's a brief dictionary!
(please note my definitions need more detail to cover every issue but this is aimed at a complete beginer so I stick to real basics)
Site, website - Collection of web pages that connect to one web address.
Site - also used to talk about your Xenforo forums when you have them.
Hosting, host, web host - this is the service which holds your web pages including Xenforo stuff. It's possible to get free hosting but it wo't be good and might put awkward conditions on you. You would normally pay per month. Don't rush the decision on who to use so playing with the demo here will give you time.
Domain name, domain - the name you book for your site eg
www.xenforo.com This belongs to you but on a rental basis so you buy it per year.
When you arrange your
hosting the two things,
domain name and
hosting service get connected up. So visitors when they go to your site name
www.whateverxyz.com find this shows the YOUR site and not another one!
Sometimes both
domain name and
hosting are done by the same company and they will connect them for you.
Upload - putting a file 'up' on to your site. To begin with you upload all of the XF files to your new site.
FTP - File Transfer Protocol - the method you use to put files 'up' on your site . You will need to put Xenforo files on the site. You can get free programs that do FTP /uploading for you.
Board - the whole Xenforo experience - you, your forums, your members and visitors, the pages you all create.
Forum - can mean 2 things. Same thing as 'board.' Can be a particular forum (discussion) on the board.
Admin - this is you as the owner and operator.
User - whoever visits your board/ forums whether registered member, or guest/ outsider.
Install, installation A specific Xenforo board/ forum on your site. We say you install it when you set it up.
Configure - Once you have uploaded all the Xenforo files the instructions tell you to go to a link they give you. This makes Xenforo check it has all its clothes in the right place!
It then asks you to give it more info like your email, a name you choose to use in the XF system, and your own password.
Database - This is a special place on your site which stores lots of lists for your XF forum eg your members.
You have to create a database, then give its name and password to XF. Don't worry your hosting company will probably help you and create a database for you.
admincp =
Admin Control Pane
l. Where you make changes like creating a new forum, page, or decode things look like re colours.
There are LOTS of friendly people here as well as moderators (official helpers) who will help you with absolutely everything. As a complete newcomer it might take a few days to get it all sorted out - maybe not though. But you'll do it with our help.
Then it's loads of fun.