Do you mean your hosting company?XF sends that email immediately at which point it is no longer in our hands.
Slow delivery would usually be related to whatever method is used to send the email - in XF this is usually built-in sendmail or SMTP. You'll need to ascertain how your emails are sent and then seek support from whoever supports that in order to troubleshoot why the email delivery is slow.
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