Well said.
You also need to remember that not everyone is in your timezone. Some regular members, myself included, along with the Xenforo developers and some moderators live in the UK, so we're likely asleep when you made your two posts (quarter past midnight and 6.19am our time). So please be patient when waiting for an answer.
As
@Tracy Perry says, you need to give more detail about what you are trying to achieve and why the out-of-the-box setup of XenForo isn't enough in your opinion.