ChemicalKicks
Well-known member
I had a Mod that was 2 timing me once. I never let on but I never trusted that Mod again.
Like the old saying goes, keep your friends close and your enemies closer...
You have to explain this!
I had a Mod that was 2 timing me once. I never let on but I never trusted that Mod again.
Like the old saying goes, keep your friends close and your enemies closer...
You have to explain this!
Also agreed.A private forum is just that and the content should not be divulged. Clearly this moderator cannot be trusted with your control panel or the integrity of your site, I would have removed him/her permanently as soon as this came to light.
Then, the perpetrator will be embarrassed. That person will go into obscurity with the community. If you have enough weight with the members, the moderator in question loses his "stature." In other words, once the other mods start pointing fingers at the mod in question - he loses respect from them, and then loses the community's respect in the process. That's how it works.This, I'd never do. How do you think they feel, if they've worked hard for ages to help, and then get kicked because someone else -might- have leaked information intentionally?
They can do what they please. Like I said before: If you have enough weight, and power with your members, you can keep them despite the problems.Consider this. I knew of a forum that once had a similar problem. All mods were let go. Some stayed on as users, but were cranky and negative. Others started their own forums (they know the software now) and syphoned off users. The place was never the same
They are, but you can move with confidence and everything will be all right.Tread carefully. Communities are fragile things.
Indeed. We find out who it is by the power of deduction and raw server log files.Oh yeah, as a heads up from here on out, I do not explain nada.
Good day, Amigos.
Yes, or they will all turn against you for your actions and both ex-moderators and members will never look at you the same way. Nothing loses you the favour of people quicker than punishing the innocent.Then, the perpetrator will be embarrassed. That person will go into obscurity with the community. If you have enough weight with the members, the moderator in question loses his "stature." In other words, once the other mods start pointing fingers at the mod in question - he loses respect from them, and then loses the community's respect in the process. That's how it works.
Not to mention, an overkill attitude can convince the other moderators their hard work can be thrown out the window at any time. Why would they bother with a volunteer position if they can't trust the ones they should look up to?Yes, or they will all turn against you for your actions and both ex-moderators and members will never look at you the same way. Nothing loses you the favour of people quicker than punishing the innocent.
"Innocent." Really?Yes, or they will all turn against you for your actions and both ex-moderators and members will never look at you the same way. Nothing loses you the favour of people quicker than punishing the innocent.
Actually, not really. If that moderator is worried about losing his [volunteer] position because another person did something to really hurt the site in question, then there's the door. There is no overkill. If he plans to do something really stupid such as revealing your sensitive information, he should be demoted. Pronto.Not to mention, an overkill attitude can convince the other moderators their hard work can be thrown out the window at any time. Why would they bother with a volunteer position if they can't trust the ones they should look up to?
Nope. I have been there, done that. I have seen communities throw out a moderator team, and people who "contributed" to the success of that site were afraid it would happen to them - they they were even more afraid to try the same tactic. I have seen it myself. More than once.Wow. Carlos. So much to learn.
I've checked everything possible and I don't think he's actually had access to the private forum, just been told the details (by a moderator) of the particular thread concerning him (I believe he would have gone to town if he'd genuinely had access!).
Try eternity.A moderator who is not honest about his / her actions may well cause severe problems down the road.
...This will cause way more problems than you hope to solve.If it was me?
I'd say this list:
- Demote the mod team (wait before you pass judgement)
- Make an announcement about the leak, don't say anything about the absolute details like you did here.
- Wait for reactions.
- If negative, such as who did this, who did that, let all the negativity out in the open. Let it all out. Don't worry about speculation, let it be. If you must try and clear things up, do so.
- Let the moderator come forward. He's going to be feeling guilty.
- Once you're finished, slowly bring the moderators back into the team if you really like some of them, or really trust them.
After this ordeal is done, put your original thread about the leak into a private forum, and let them mods talk it out.
The point is not to blame anyone, but to lure the perpetrator out.
Confront this person, and tell him how you feel. You, not the mod team, not your members. YOU.
Then proceed to manage the forum as normal.
Alternate routes and outcomes:
If you contacted each moderator and ask them up-front, the perpetrator is going to keep silent for as long as he wishes, or as long as the ban on the original member is lifted. The perpetrator is going to lie to you until "the point is made." But you don't want to give him that kind of satisfaction. That's actually saying "hah! I can have power over what the admin decides to do." In other words, this way, you're his puppet. You don't want that.
On the other side of the equation, if you contacted each mod, they're going to think you're blaming THEM, individually, and will cause internal conflicts. [This can and will be brought out in the open.] It recently happened to a community I used to frequent.
So, either way, you have a tough situation in your hands.
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