Sorry love, I dunno about the Flexile style. I do notice it throws up a lot of queries though.
My design is based on the basic XF style.
I remember we had a discussion about your header which neither of us thought was wonderful. I still think it does not serve your board well. You could have a perfectly powerful and graceful header without using a radically different style. That would also be much better when you need to upgrade - redoing it all is a headache I often see mentioned.
If you wanted to revert to the XF style I'll gladly help - I love styling. Also your board and mine supports a broadly similar ethos so we should help each other.
I could pop you on my own instant messenger so we can work together very easily and comfortably. Also apart from the high level support from lots of people here I have a friendly personal relationship with one of the best coders here. I know he would help us with the bits that go beyond what I have learned so far.