These are PERSONAL opinions that related to my xf experience:
I for one don't feel ignored, I'm not requiring security patches every so often, I'm not running into any bugs at all, and support questions are still being answered as quick as ever. I personally am still having fun experimenting with XenForo and am working on launching a new project on it. I do feel majority of this talk in this thread is silly... and no not people voicing their concerns, but a lot of peoples attitudes.
I didn't come from the vB drama but it does feel like we all put KMA on a pedestal(as mentioned I believe earlier) and we expect so much of them. So far XenForo runs flawlessly(for me and many others) and they have stated an expected release for 1.2 AND Mike has even stated Kier's had personal issues which I absolutely respect that because my personal life comes before any online project, free or paid no matter the consequences.
I'm not saying I don't miss the old days of posting a suggestion and having Kier or Mike respond to it within a day or two, but even then I was wondering how long it would last. So go on and call me fan boy, go start a new conspiracy theory, or quote me on the little website to fulfill your life here on the world wide web.