This forum always seemed kinda tight knit. Even the staff, irregardless of the drama. I've both given and recieved great webmaster and life advice from peeps I wouldn't have expected, it's about time the community had a meetup.
I have a passport and I fly for free since I started working at my local international airport. I am willing to go to any Xenforo meetup that's in a public place that's guaranteed to have at least more than three people.
As far as organizing a meetup from my home state of Florida, I wouldn't do it where I live (Pensacola) because I think most people who visit Fl would rather go to Miami so I would organize it at Miami.
I could also go to one or do one at Dallas Fort Worth Texas or Charlotte North Carolina since I go there once a month.