Elizabeth
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I couldn't get dh on a boat if MY life depended on it. I would enjoy it but 1) he can't swim and 2) he gets seasick.Hey we're yachties! Agree some of my greatest memories are aboard.
I couldn't get dh on a boat if MY life depended on it. I would enjoy it but 1) he can't swim and 2) he gets seasick.Hey we're yachties! Agree some of my greatest memories are aboard.
I love it. When I first knew John he was fresh back from crossing the Atlantic as first mate on a not very sound yacht. He was utterly brown, lean, hard and adorable. But I was totally immersed in my vocation.
We became close friends but it was when he took me sailing that the world changed between us.
As a very strong tough lady running a big pioneering national community I was used to being alone because would be lovers were admirers which isn't a good recipe. Inequality breeds resentment.
Suddenly on John's boat - an pld antique gaff rig cutter all made of solid teak wood - I was introduced to the whole different reality of the sea, with this extraordinary man fully in charge - of me!
He is catlike on board, quietly at one with it all, knowing the air currents, the water currents, how they weave together with us in our wooden mini-earth. I felt those great powers of waters and air move through me until I didn't really exist except as their meeting point. John smiled at me with a great gentleness and I was a girl again, relying on his strength. I was lost, ecstatically lost!
Reader I handfasted him and 20 turbulent years later I yearn to go sailing again. Too much illness ... but next year we will renovate our poor neglected boat. She is in a bad way and it may not be until 2012 we sail her again. A lot of work. We are determined.
Thanks Liz. He is a very neat kid. He's my heart and soul.Wow, Peggy, I would have been busting buttons all over the place!!! He sounds like a neat kid.
Thought I might share this here. As some of you know, my son is diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome, ADHD, Sensory Processing Disorder, severe Anxiety disorder, clinical depression, and I forget the rest. Anyway, it all falls under the "umbrella" of High-functioning autism and/or PDD.
I am subscribed to an online magazine, Parenting Special Needs. This is a very popular online magazine in the special needs community. They heard mention of an incident that happened to my son at his school, and asked me to share it, which I did. They then asked if they could publish it in their magazine, to which I agreed. The small article is in the current issue, and I've grabbed a screen shot of it and attached it here.
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Welcome, it's a nice quiet, but interesting corner.I just stumbled upon this thread and wanted to say hello to all the other ladies here.
So much fun and interesting reading all in one place.![]()
They do pop their mugs in every once in a while and we have to shooo them out.Thanks Elizabeth.
I'm liking the "no boys allowed" part too.![]()
Walks in.. unlaces corset.. Oh thank god!
Leftie....OUT!!!! We would lock it but can't lock a thread.Oh crap, i didn't mean to look .... honest. You girls need to lock the door to this place.
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