Lol! True though, my thoughts lately have been more along lines of this; "They bytch about getting bad men(arseholes, abusers, cheaters, players and etc) for dating but really want a "good man". But end up putting all the good men in "friend only zones", and continually pick the bad men anyway, then bytch again and again for getting "bad men". "All I ever had were girls that claim to love me, won't hurt me like previous exes have done, and yet do it anyway. Cheat, lie, slut around, don't want head games done to them, but do it/did it to me and other men... I'll never understand lol.
A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.
A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.
A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.
I've learned long time ago to make it a point to NOT keep such individuals in my life. The outcome is more favorable and less stressful that way. Ironically, the moment you tell such a person to f*ck off, they will either resent you for it or want you. But all of them are surprised when you tell them you don't see them "that way" (as a friend) and can not be such.
I use to do that "friend thing" in the "friend zone", but honestly once you're there... It's like a black hole, not even gravity escapes (unless some miracle happens)Lmao! Exactly...Doesn't make sense.
I tried removing them from my life/ facebook (That's mainly where they are now anyway), but then if you remove them, you get 3rd degree...Or the sob story, "why did you remove me, why you no talk to me no more?" lol. I never get anything about "oh i want you, i was testing you or whatever" responses lol. I just keep them on my page as "friend only", let them go continually f-up their own love life repeatedly, and ignore the fact they continually bytch about getting crap men they keep picking but do nothing about it. Hence another reason why I don't like Facefluck anymore in general. Female bullshyt drama and normal drama idiots. I've had a little over year now worth of stuff to rant about on my "myarsehole.com" blog.. I should start firing up new posts on it, bring it back to life lol
"Look, you don't see me "that way" and I don't see you the other way. So it's best we just part ways, because I've got no time for games and I've got plenty of friends."
I'm sure that goes over well![]()
Actually..... Overall, it does.I'm sure that goes over well![]()
Actually..... Overall, it does.
It makes zero sense. I do not exactly understand it. I mean I've got "theories" as to why, but I couldn't exactly hand you a smoking gun. But in the end, it does yield better results.
You either end up being her first choice (win) or you end up less stressed with less drama (win). You simply state it's either all or nothing (as you're not looking for another friend).
And no matter which outcome she picks, you're not the guy on the phone who she calls to cry about the other dude (metaphorically speaking).
Honestly, that normally doesn't work either.....yeah, i know what you're saying... just that doesn't always work for me though.. lol. cause they bytch and bawl cause i'm getting rid of them totally haha. i dunno, maybe i have too big of heart, even though i appear or act like a rapid dog / arsehole / protective of self. i guess to me, i'd rather have someone as friend, than nothing at all lol. i'd hate to lose "friends" in general too.. cause if by chance you need one, they wouldn't be there because you remove them totally..for reasons you stated there. i dunno, i'd rather just have them there as friends/advice givers.. if i couldn't be with them as relationship lol
Honestly, that normally doesn't work either.....
Because most of those women who would "keep you close" and use you as their support when things wrong. Normally are not there when you need them.
I'm telling you, the friend zone is not where you want a girl to put you. It's cool if you decide to place a women in the friend zone, but never the other way around.
Ironically, most of my friends and most of the people I get along with are indeed women. But they are women I decided I wanted only as friends.
Just do what youtube does and give up, and change it again in 6 months to something entirely different.I will eventually figure out how to make my cover page a fluid responsive layout.
I will eventually figure out how to make my cover page a fluid responsive layout.
I will eventually figure out how to make my cover page a fluid responsive layout.
I will eventually figure out how to make my cover page a fluid responsive layout.
I will eventually figure out how to make my cover page a fluid responsive layout.
I will eventually figure out how to make my cover page a fluid responsive layout.
I will eventually figure out how to make my cover page a fluid responsive layout.
I will eventually figure out how to make my cover page a fluid responsive layout.
I will eventually figure out how to make my cover page a fluid responsive layout.
I will eventually figure out how to make my cover page a fluid responsive layout.
I will eventually figure out how to make my cover page a fluid responsive layout.
* cries *
It's only 2 files. index.html and global.css Once I think I have something right, something else doesn't work.
Just do what youtube does and give up, and change it again in 6 months to something entirely different.
I will eventually figure out how to make my cover page a fluid responsive layout.
* cries *![]()
We use essential cookies to make this site work, and optional cookies to enhance your experience.