Hmm....still not working. I disabled Cometchat via usergroup permission and also put this in PAGE_CONTAINER:
<xen:if is="!{xen:helper ismemberof, $visitor, 1}">
<link type="text/css" href="/cometchat/cometchatcss.php" rel="stylesheet" charset="utf-8">
<script type="text/javascript" src="/cometchat/cometchatjs.php" charset="utf-8"></script>
</xen:if>
It does NOT work and it still shows to members who have NOT yet been manually approved.
Help please!