Congratulations @Waindigo. My wife and I have been married 31 years, and we've had our share of arguments, good times and bad times. Biggest thing I can suggest is to honestly communicate your feelings towards each other. Try not to end the day "mad" about something.
Congratulations off course your getting so many comments your a well respected member of the Xenforo community what you have done for us all earns you a great deal of respect in my eyes.