I've not spent a single penny on advertizing. Why should I?
I wasn’t talking about you specifically; I was talking about people who want to start a forum with a clear commercial purpose. Only to fail at monetizing it and then blame the Xenforo platform.
In fact, in my own message I said:
That said, it’s not necessarily the case. Many people are perfectly happy to run their communities as a “hobby” without any financial return. And I respect them. At least they don’t complain about how outdated Xenforo is.
It is a hobby, that was a deliberate decision. The direct cost of the forum are covered through donations from the users that we collect when doing events. We don't even have a donation button on the webpage. No advertizing, no premium access, no sponsored content or any other form or monetarization.
Well, I mean, it’s great that there are organizations that can sustain themselves through volunteer work. No one was criticizing that.
The discussion was about whether the Xenforo platform was fundamentally doomed to fail for any commercial project. Whether due to outdated design or other factors.
No. Only if you want to run it commercially. All in the direct cost of running my forum aggregate to about 500-800€/year, depending from how much I spend for add on licenses and renewals in any given year. Hosting and domain is ~200€ of that. If I would however count the time in that I spent for administration, moderation and content creation it would not work out with the current philosophy of the forum and if would like to cover that or really earn money it would change the culture of our forum massively and not in a positive way (and probably still not be sucessful and clearly not be an interesting business model).
Of course, I was just talking about those who want to make a profit off of it. And those are often the very people who criticize the platform the most. And they’re the loudest ones on this forum.
At least from my point of view. I don't know why you took it so personally. My comment was extremely general, partly because I don't know all the websites that everyone on this forum runs. I can only speak from my own impression.
Besides, people who run a forum as a hobby aren't that interested in constant updates because they might not be able to devote much time to maintenance.
Nor have I ever said that running a forum as a hobby is expensive. Quite the opposite. Then again, excuse me, but there are people who want to devote time and mental energy to it, yet may not be able to spend what’s needed each month to keep the site online, so they’ll look for a way to cover their basic costs somehow.
I don’t see anything wrong with that. Of course, everyone makes their own choices, but no one was criticizing anyone for that.
I took the same thing to Instagram and Facebook and grew both to over 100K followers and regularly monetize my content now. There is simply no comparison, if one is grandfathered in on a forum I can understand but trying to get something off the ground or attempting to grow a mediocre forum is very difficult.
But I never said that forums are a one-size-fits-all solution; on the contrary, I’ve said many times that growing a forum is difficult, partly because it involves third-party participation, whereas Instagram and Facebook are social media platforms (primarily Instagram—though Facebook groups are different) where posts, videos, and content are fed down from the top (much like YouTube in some ways), creating a channel-to-viewer relationship rather than a “community.”
I’d be short-sighted not to understand how certain projects are incompatible with forums. But it’s also worth noting that tying yourself too closely to Instagram and Facebook means “outsourcing” all your users to a platform you don’t control.
This is obviously bad for any business. That’s why anyone looking to protect themselves in the long run tries to bring people to platforms they control (if not a forum, then a newsletter, a forum of some kind that requires registration, or something similar).
Everything has its pros and cons. And so it needs to be weighed carefully.