Completely disagree.
Very often, developers will patch critical vulnerabilities without giving it any notice in the release notes. A release might contain a patch for a security issue as well as some minor bug fixes, and the patch note might contain information about the bugs and sometimes something else (non-security issue related) to imply that people should update.
A lot of software developers in various industries adopt this policy. It prevents exploitation of major security issues. Forum administrators aren't exactly the types of people to stay up to date with software updates, especially if you have 99 add-ons or so, it becomes a pain in the ass to keep them up to date (see last paragraph), so a lot of people will keep using outdated versions that just get the job done. It's not very productive to bring attention to a security issue that many people don't know about, or perhaps nobody else knows about and it was discovered internally whilst working on an update.
This brings attention to security issues and is more likely to be used by people to exploit forums more than anything else. Major vulnerabilities should be kept low key for the initial period after the patch, at least, to give people time to update before announcing the issue to the world (as per responsible disclosure).
Instead, you should aim to keep up to date with all releases, vulnerability or not.
Additionally, XenForo should take lead here and create a system for automatic updating through the ACP, either with one-click or completely automatically. A specification should be made for implementation by add-on developers to facilitate automatic updating of paid add-ons. This resolves this issue and additionally encourages forum admins to stay up to date with the latest updates.