I followed the instructions to the letter, and supplied all requested information in my requests.
Never got an answer.
This evening, saturday Febr. 5, 2011, I browsed to the Xenfy.com website, and hey, guess what??
HOSTING ACCOUNT EXPIRED
The hosting account for xenfy.com expired.
Basically, XenfyPress is free. You request it by sending an email to contact AT xenfy.com, and you receive the theme packed in a zip file.
At least, that's what Xenfy's instructions say, on this very website XenForo.com.
Is there anyone who actually succeeded in requesting the XenfyPress theme?
If you do, perhaps you would be so kind to mail me a copy at eric -dot- p -dot- winter at gmail -dot- com.